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esterday, I picked up my 17-year-old son from his final camping trip as a scout. The weekend in Forestburg, NY was perfect - clear skies, frozen lake, and constellations that he could identify. It was held at the Boy Scout camp where he's made countless memories, and probably just as many mischief.

    As I drove to pick him up, I couldn't help but think about his scouting journey. He started at six in a large pack with boys from his school, despite having autism and ADHD. His den and fearless leaders were incredibly patient, which was essential for his success. I also volunteered extensively, which taught me the value of compassion.

    I signed him up because there are three Eagle Scouts in our family, and I knew scouting would be hard but good for him. In Cub Scouts, he learned to wait, not always be the best, and that selling popcorn wouldn't kill him. He developed a sense of responsibility and duty, and when he entered Boy Scouts, he learned how to advocate for himself.

    There are no handouts in the BSA - you have to ask for help. As I looked at my tired, dirty son yesterday, I was amazed by his transformation over 12 years. From being afraid of bugs to becoming a confident leader, scouting has been transformative. He's made lifelong friends and learned invaluable skills.

    In seven months, he'll be leaving the nest, but I know that scouting has prepared him for adulthood. He's acquired resilience, learned to follow instructions and lead, and developed compassion for others. I'm grateful to his troop and pack for making him the person he is today. If you're considering scouting for your child, remember: Be Prepared. You'll be amazed at who they turn out to be.