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his summer I embarked on a life-changing road trip to Whitehouse, Ohio with two dear friends from HomeLife 21. For four blissful days, we enjoyed childless freedom, exploring the Midwest and creating unforgettable memories.

    We savored decadent tacos and margaritas, discovered that Ohio's rest stops outshine Pennsylvania's, and shared secrets that will remain between us forever. My friends are more than just acquaintances; they're kindred spirits I've carefully chosen to join me on this journey, not only for their talents but also because I know we'll remain close for years to come.

    The real highlight of our trip was visiting Bittersweet Farms, a pioneering farmstead-based program for adults with autism in the United States. Founded by Bettye Ruth Kay in 1983, Bittersweet has grown into a thriving community offering residential, vocational, educational, and recreational programs on its 80-acre campus.

    What sets Bittersweet apart is its people – dedicated staff and residents who have created a haven of love, respect, and autonomy. We met a young man who shared his passion for growing chili peppers and gave us a private tour of the greenhouse, radiating joy and contentment. The staff's devotion to their clients was palpable, emphasizing the importance of dignity, choice, and compassion.

    As we left Bittersweet, we felt indelibly altered, inspired by the vision of this remarkable community. We hope to emulate their dedication and create a similar haven for our sons and other families with profound autism. Thank you to Tammy, the employees, and residents of Bittersweet Farms for an unforgettable experience that will stay with us forever.